B'day Boy, Be My Baby...

:: alahai...cedapnyew cake ni...kalo la dapat... ::

Alahai...sedap kan cake kat atas tu. Huhu, cadangnya nak beli cake camtu la...Tapi ko tau, RM 80. Ape ko nak mamposs? Dah la makan 3-4 orang je, memang tak berbaloi la. Thank you to all of you, your wishes and all makes me happy being older...=)

So...to kick start the celebration...Here a dengarlihatrasa.blogspot.com special edition post..wahaha~ Last night, time tengah duk pikir punya pikir nak buat apa, Maddy sms me...The sms sounded like this..."Han...I got a Q for ya...camne nak tau yang you really love the person? I mean mcmane nak bezakan ' repeated responsibility syndrome' & " voluntary care'? Kalo xda kedit jwb kat fs pun bleh =x...".

Well maddy, for me it is like this...Repeated responsibilty syndrome and Voluntary Care are very hard to differentiate...1st, it could or should be voluntary care when the relationship is still new (weeks-3 or 4 months). What ever you do with your partner are so voluntary...Kadang2, your bf tak suruh pun u buat itu dan ini, tapi u insists something must be done..okay, this is when ur partner didnt expect what will happen. Sebagai contoh, ur bf birthday is in 3 weeks time. Dia tak mintak pape pun kat u, but u insists yang dia mesti dapat hadiah dari u. so, there u are, voluntary care. u wanna make him happy, u are soo volunteered to give him present. And he doesnt expecting that.

The repeated responsibility syndrome only occur to partnership or relation that last for a year or more. At this time, the voluntary act is waning...All u know, u start to 'realize' that in order to keep the relationship between u and him intact, u do things that u feel it is ur responsibility, and u are hoping that he will do things that u might think as his responsibility. Back to the birthday situation, and this is after a year..When giving a present last year, ur bf start to wonder what present he will get next year from u...Now, he is EXPECTING.

See...it's hard to see b'coz not all couples will kiss and tell everything they feel to their partner. U will never know what ur bf is expecting unless u talk to him..Both syndrome is good for relationship. If u feel u are doing both of it, and u are really in love with him...Not one, but BOTH!

My thoughts, really...sumtimes scared me a little~

:: Thank You So Much To Mia...You Are Such A Star ::